If you are going to have social media you must know the
three simple steps in order to deal with haters and they are:
1. Ignore what is said about you, because you know it isn’t
true.
2. Delete the comment.
3. Block whoever said it and say BYE!
- In order to deal with online trolls, you should just delete their comments and block them. You shouldn’t have to tolerate ANY kind of negativity directed towards you and allow it to happen again. A lot of people would say to stick up for yourself and write back to trolls if they talk bad about you or start rumors, but you shouldn’t. Why waste your precious time and energy on someone who is talking crap you shouldn’t have to hear? Sadly if you are going to have social media you have to expect comments to possibly be written about you. However, if you respond to trolls you are just giving them what they want, ATTENTION. What difference does it make if you do respond to them? Will it make you feel any better? Honestly, if you do respond to other peoples’ comments I feel like it bothers you even more, because once you start to question if what they are saying is true, that’s when you get emotionally involved and defensive. You should never think someone’s opinion about yourself is true, because you know who you are and that is all that matters! You don’t need to prove to anyone else otherwise!
I agree with you, however this just doesn't work for some people. We all handle things differently. For me I do what you just said only I don't block and all that. I let them do it, but blocking and saying bye works for some people as I said.
ReplyDeleteThat’s what I'm saying! I do this strategy on the internet and in reality. If I ever get talked about in a bad way, I simply ignore it because in that way you don't give that troll what they want. I know who I am, no one else knows me more than I know myself. But at times I do feel what is being said about me is giving me a bad reputation, and that is out of my control. So I think that this strategy works at a 50 Percent Rate. Because you won't have to worry about someone talking bad of and about you when you have them on block, but you still cannot prevent them from continuing, and still hurting you from the back.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with you! I believe if a certain person, or "account", is taking their time to comment negative things , they shouldn't be worth your time, so it would be best to block them. Plus, they are obviously not good people to surround yourself with or at least, allowing them to be around you in any way. So yes, ignore, delete, block AND SAY BYE!
ReplyDeleteI agree! I feel like thats the best thing to do. If you show them you are affected, they'll do it more until you are broken. Yes of course its going to hurt, but its going to hurt more if you continue talking back to them. These trolls know what to say and when to say it. They already have a response if you reply back to them. Yes, the best way to show a troll you don't care is to BLOCK AND IGNORE!
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